Comments on: No one is safe http://grieving.blogsome.com/2009/01/15/no-one-is-safe/ "Whoever survives a test, whatever it may be, must tell the story. That is his duty."--Elie Wiesel Sat, 02 Jan 2010 07:10:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: The girl left behind http://grieving.blogsome.com/2009/01/15/no-one-is-safe/#comment-438 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 18:59:46 +0000 http://grieving.blogsome.com/2009/01/15/no-one-is-safe/#comment-438 Sorry for you comment frustration, Lesley--all first-time comments are moderated. I will say that it DOES get easier, slowly, though, at least for me, it was still a struggle at one year. I was healing all along, but I really didn't turn a perceptible corner until 15 months, and an obvious one at 18. While some people move forward faster than I did, my experience talking to other widows is that my timetable seems to be a common one. We think that after a year, something magical will happen, but it's just not that way; day 366 is pretty much the same as day 365. Sorry for you comment frustration, Lesley–all first-time comments are moderated.

I will say that it DOES get easier, slowly, though, at least for me, it was still a struggle at one year. I was healing all along, but I really didn’t turn a perceptible corner until 15 months, and an obvious one at 18. While some people move forward faster than I did, my experience talking to other widows is that my timetable seems to be a common one. We think that after a year, something magical will happen, but it’s just not that way; day 366 is pretty much the same as day 365.

]]> by: Lesley Bell http://grieving.blogsome.com/2009/01/15/no-one-is-safe/#comment-437 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 11:27:48 +0000 http://grieving.blogsome.com/2009/01/15/no-one-is-safe/#comment-437 Yes I stuck in my grief and don't know how to survive after loss of best mate soul mate!! Yes I stuck in my grief and don’t know how to survive after loss of best mate soul mate!!

]]> by: Lesley Bell http://grieving.blogsome.com/2009/01/15/no-one-is-safe/#comment-436 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 11:25:10 +0000 http://grieving.blogsome.com/2009/01/15/no-one-is-safe/#comment-436 dOES LIFE GET EASIER AFTER GRIEF? iF THERE IS AFTER GRIEF!! dOES LIFE GET EASIER AFTER GRIEF? iF THERE IS AFTER GRIEF!!

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